Toilet Training: Tips for Success with Your Little Ones
Toilet training is one of the important aspects in a child's development, making a step towards greater independence and self-reliance. It can be a long and daunting process for parents and children, however, a patient and positive approach can make this transition smoother and more successful. Here are some practical tips to help guide you through toilet training your child.
Timing is everything
The key element in making your child learn is recognising when he/she is ready. Most children show signs of readiness between 18 to 24 months, but some may not be ready until 3 years old. Signs of readiness include:
- Staying dry for longer periods.
- Showing interest in using the toilet.
- Communicating the need to go.
- Disliking dirty diapers.
It's important to remember that every child is different, and pushing them before they're ready can lead to frustration and setbacks.
Create a Routine
Create a consistent routine which will help children understand what needs to be done. Set regular times for bathroom visits once they wake up or after meals, and before bedtime. Regularity helps build habits and makes it easier for your child to adapt to the process.
Use Positive Reinforcement
Positive encouragement will lead to the desired behaviour of children. Celebrate their success with praise, stickers and more. Small steps like sitting on the toilet, washing hands should be praised. Don't punish or shout for any accidents, as this can create anxiety for them to use the toilet.
Equip and Empower
Make the bathroom a fun and welcoming area for your kid. For eg. use a child-sized potty seat or a different seat that fits on the regular toilet along with some steps. Keep your bathroom decorated or keep some fun toys that make your child want to go bathroom. Let your children choose their toilet seat to increase their interest.
Dress for Success
Clothes that are easy to remove make it less stressful for you and your child. Avoid wearing outfits that have buttons, belts or zippers. Elastic waistband clothes are suitable during this period.
Teach Hygiene Early
Incorporate good hygiene habits from the start. Teach your child to wipe properly (front to back for girls, flush toilet and wash hands). Make hand washing fun with songs or special soaps to encourage compliance.
Nighttime Training
Night time dryness usually takes longer to achieve than daytime control. Using waterproof mattress protectors and limiting liquids before bedtime will help your child to avoid the urge to pee or poop. Praise your child for dry nights, but be prepared for occasional accidents.
Involve Caregivers
Involving caregivers in the routine can help your child learn how to use the toilet in a proper way. Ensure all caregivers are on the same page for toilet training and procedures. This may include family members, babysitters and day care providers. Consistency is key; make sure all of them are following the same routines for your kids to be toilet trained.